I recently sat across from a school leader I’m coaching, her face etched with concern as she shared the daily battles she faced in her school. Cell phones, she said, had become both a lifeline and a landmine for her students. From bullying investigations and escalating lawyer calls to helicopter parents demanding unrestricted access to their children during school hours, the challenges felt relentless. One student’s experience haunted her: a high school girl in an alternative school, whose social media interactions had spiraled into cyberbullying, suicidal ideation, and the need for therapeutic care. The parents blamed the school, the teachers felt powerless, and the students were caught in the middle of a storm.
This conversation stayed with me because it reflects the complex reality of cell phones in today’s schools. They are not simply distractions to be taken away. They are tools of connection, for better or worse, that schools must learn to manage thoughtfully. While there’s no perfect solution, I’ve seen strategies successfully implemented to reduce harm and foster engagement. This blog shares some of those ideas—not as a definitive answer, but as a starting point for schools to find balance and turn this challenge into an opportunity.
In my experience leading PreK-5 and PreK-8 school communities, parents often want their children to have phones for safety reasons, especially during commutes. Buses can be unpredictable spaces, and having a way to contact a parent or guardian offers peace of mind.
But what happens once students are in school?
This mix of uses presents a tough question for educators: How do we create an environment where learning remains the focus, while respecting the role cell phones play in students' lives?
Nationally, 95% of teens have access to a smartphone, and 45% of 8- to 12-year-olds have their own device. Research from Common Sense Media reveals that students spend an average of 7 hours and 22 minutes daily on screens outside of school. This statistic underscores the challenge for educators: students are immersed in a digital world that doesn’t stop when the school day begins.
A study by the London School of Economics found that banning cell phones in schools resulted in a 6% increase in test scores, with the greatest benefits observed among lower-achieving students. Yet, outright bans are not always feasible or culturally responsive in schools where parents expect their children to have access to phones.
Retrieved from Pew Research Center on January 2nd, 2025
In one school I led, we noticed phones were central to hallway conflicts, bathroom bullying, and disengagement in class. To address this, we introduced cell phone safety boxes in each classroom. Upon entering, students placed their phones in the box and retrieved them at the end of the day.
For older students, we piloted Yondr pouches, which locked phones away but allowed students to keep them physically. These strategies required upfront costs but paid off in reducing distractions and incidents of phone misuse.
Managing cell phones effectively doesn’t always have to be about restrictions and rules. Creative incentive-based approaches can encourage responsible phone use while fostering a positive school culture. Here are three ideas that go beyond the conventional:
How It Works:
Students who voluntarily hand in their phones at the beginning of the school day or during specified class periods earn “Tech-Free Tickets.” These tickets can be redeemed for:
Why It Works:
This strategy creates a tangible reward for self-regulation, making students feel their choice is valued while reinforcing the importance of focused learning.
How It Works:
Designate specific “Digital Detox Days” during which students are encouraged to go entirely phone-free for the day. Students who participate could enjoy perks such as:
Why It Works:
This approach gamifies responsible phone behavior, making it a collaborative effort where students feel rewarded for stepping back from their devices.
How It Works:
Allow students to “earn back” limited phone privileges during designated times (e.g., lunch or after school) by meeting behavioral and academic goals.
Why It Works:
By framing phone use as a privilege rather than a right, students become more intentional about earning and maintaining access to their devices. This system also ties phone use to personal responsibility and academic success.
Create a Clear Policy
Incorporate Digital Citizenship Education
Engage Families
Monitor and Adjust
Dr. Jean Twenge, author of iGen, notes, “Teens who spend more time on social media and screens are more likely to report mental health challenges such as anxiety and depression.” While phones connect students to loved ones, they can also be a source of stress and distraction. Schools must play a critical role in helping students find a healthy balance.
Cell phones are here to stay, and schools must adapt. By combining clear policies, creative incentives, and thoughtful tools, we can create environments where students feel safe, connected, and ready to learn.